Despite all these attempts at independence, children need to feel safe (this is also true for teenagers, although they never admit it). Require a sense of security and support from adults they trust. Children may become fearful in its drive for independence, when they are abandoned or given no protection to a hazardous situation. But if they are able to secure exploration experiences, then they are proud of all they have known "do it alone." Parents should not only providing security, perhaps the children need contact with "outsiders", that can mimic the reactions and behaviors that do not experience at home.
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