what to do when a child refuses to go to school?
usually happen to 25% of children
schooling, which in our country begins in the garden infant, represents a milestone in life. If until then the boy was away from home, his move to the school located in a different position: it is essential that the passage-very important-is gradual.
the adult should give rise to questions, expectations and fears that the child has, which will "give name to" unknown. It is important to remember that not only goes to school to learn, the construction of the social bond that a child can build with their peers is of paramount importance in his life and future.
When kids refuse to go to school, we must investigate the cause. In schools, there are often episodes of violence to which some boys, feeling attacked and not knowing how to locate, choose away. It is important to talk with them are not caught by the situation and find the only way out of the place disappear.
On the other hand, many children are fragile, mocked and isolated, and suffer because they can not connect with their peers. In such cases, must take account of personal reasons that led them to feel inhibited or undervalued compared to others. Instead of an immediate change of school, she must find the reasons of suffering, as if compulsively change of place, without checking the same, the scene could be repeated isolation.
The author is a psychoanalyst and teacher coordinator and supervisor of the Center Two ( www.centrodos.com.ar )
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